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muckinmcfuffin:

emiliaclarkesfuturewife:

judecapone:

emiliaclarkesfuturewife:

muckinmcfuffin:

GET OUT OF LIFE. I am NOT ‘Yours’ nor will I ever be ‘Yours’ I am not something you can have! “Wanted an asian girl”-Do you have a fucking list of women from various cultures you would like to ‘have’ ?! Do you think that is a compliment?! You blushing?! You should be! You should rolling up in a ball because you just said something incredibly stupid! Or because I’d be kicking you! How DARE you diminish the fact that I am a HUMAN BEING not something you can have. Or diminish the fact that women everywhere have been deemed to be objects of men’s ownership which is wrong on so many levels…It’s 2014 dude, WAKE UP!-Not that you’d be waking up to a world full of peace and equality…but you’d at least SEE the movement of feminism rising and how it NEEDS to be part of everyone’s mindset as it is HEALTHY and not destructive like your current way of thinking about women. I bet your idea of an “Asian girl” is a mixture of ALL countries of Asia and all the various cultures within that huge continent…which I find upsetting! All you BELIEVE TO KNOW about Asia comes from shitty movie ‘representation’ (I wouldn’t even call it representation). There are different countries in Asia which means there are different values/beliefs/religions/cultures/PEOPLE. …Please read a book about the history of Korea, the history of it’s people, of it’s women, the history of women in this very country and maybe you will learn WHY you are wrong for saying that. Because you ARE WRONG and it is matter of time and learning until you realize why. Asian women are not ‘things you can have’ you sick fuck, that is a fetishized fantasy you have of an entire group of people that are all incredibly different and unique to one another. 

I encounter this an ungodly amount of times. Where I introduce myself to new people (specifically men) and they ask what my ethnicity/race is, (because I maybe I obtain some physical features that may make it slightly apparent that I may not be totally Caucasian?) and once I say “I am half Korean…” either the response is “I’ve always wanted to be with an Asian chick/I can see it in your eyes/I always had a thing for Asian girls/You’re a cute little Asian girl” -Uhhh first of all, I am not small by any means, I could kill you with my thighs of steel yo, and secondly…WHAT THE FUCK?! I used to not get so worked up about this before, it made me uncomfortable, but not angry. But now I am angry because this is a real issue that emiliaclarkesfuturewife has made me aware of (even though she totally didn’t realize). Women from Asia, and Asian-American women have to deal with scumbag people who merely see them as a fantasy of obedience/submissiveness and ‘exotic’-ness rather than a race/ethnicity/culture/group of beings with YEARS of history both good and bad and all worth learning about (which may help you realize that certain individuals/groups do not like having a generic label of “Asian” because of reasons within history and do not like being grouped with other individuals/groups within that large continent…which I am still trying to figure out where I stand on that thought)

LEAVE FOOL. You have a Frankenstein sized forehead that is clearly empty! And Frankenstein had a dead person’s brain and heart and EVERYTHING and was still a better person than you and HE WASN’T REAL. BUT YOU ARE!-REAL STUPID THAT IS.  

If I offended anyone by what I said from my own being offended (expect that dude cause I don’t care about his life) I apologize and this is a REAL ISSUE that bothers me and in the heat of the moment + the fact that I personally am still very new to learning about this particular issue I may have said something not totally OKAY. If somebody made you feel less of a human because of your race/ethnicity/cultural background/the values & beliefs you practice/your gender/your sexuality identity/your appearance/your feelings & emotions/and more- then that’s plenty of reason to call someone an ass. 

Seems a little over the top in her reaction. I’m almost 100% sure he doesn’t want a fucking Korean Slave but meant to say he would love to date a fucking Korean woman. I wouldn’t want this lady to pop my figs for saying she was a girl. Take a fucking chill pill bitch

yes thank you for your amazing words i think we should all heed tumblr user judecapone and simply swallow our rage, ignore all microagressions, support erasure of individual identity in ‘Asian America’, says it’s ok to fetishize, and never vent on tumblr! 

c’mon everyone! y’all just taking decades of oppression and stereotyping and hate crimes waaaayyyyy too seriously here!!! 

i guess, tumblr user judecapone, to reiterate muckinmcfuffin: LEAVE FOOL.

Was it my use of profanity and Frankenstein-esk insults that made me seem “over the top”? Then perhaps I should have used more.  Because this is something that absolutely infuriated me.  It was in his approach. You could can say that he would have loved to date a Korean girl. But those are your words, not his.  His words were “ive always wanted an asian girl" He did not say "I would love to date" He did not say "Korean" And even if he had, I would like to ask WHY? Why would someone deliberately chose to date another being solely based of their race/cultural background? Is it to get to know the culture of Korea? The history perhaps? Well I’m sorry to say that I am no expert in Korean history and I cannot fain a relationship just to teach you about the past and present struggles of Korea, read a book! I do however have plenty of experiences where men jumble me in the category of "Asian" when they have no knowledge of how the countries and people of Asia differ because they have this generalized stereotypical view of women from countries within Asia as being submissive/exotic/will fulfill this sick fantasy. And putting the fetishization aside, he made me feel less of what I am, HUMAN.  He used words that labeled me as an object to be owned, to be had, to be wanted (where me being half Korean is the only appealing aspect of me toward him which is no-no) and that is something MANY women (of all races and cultures and ethnicities) face in this country.  The misogynistic view of men being able to have control and ownership of women.

While I know 100+ notes is not a lot, and I’m sure a few people who reblog are only doing so to scoff at my anger or laugh at me for getting this upset. The amount of people who do reblog this to spread awareness really shows that MANY people have encountered this type of attitude from men and from women as well… many people related to this and are willing to spread it around to prove to others that “Hey, this happens to me and I do not like it and it is wrong” and shows that this is a REAL and PREVALENT ISSUE. And if my rant summed up someone else’s feelings about this issue than I am so proud of that. 

dellconahger:

why ask a trans person their birth name when you could:

  • not do that

therailz:

when you fuck up and realize there’s nothing you can do so you just accept it

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baeddelshinsgirl:

kellanium-on-walrus-detail:

visambros:

Have any of you heard

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of subculture practised in

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Botswana, Africa?

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It’s a heavy metal subculture

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that some describe as

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"Cowboy Metalheads"

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And

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they

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look

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so

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awesome!

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(I found out about them because of this cracked article)

This shit is awesome.

I want to play a video game with guy #2 as the protagonist.

neutral-voice:

ohdearhermione:

do you ever feel like your future is slipping away while you’re laughing at stupid puns on tumblr

My future isn’t slipping. It’s tumbling

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streetlightarson:


ANDY WARHOL

#look at the size of these metaphors

bewbin:

bewbin:

Now that I’m an adult I have to make more serious posts

Briefcase

words-of-emotion:

Words of emotion

words-of-emotion:

Words of emotion

“Cinderella never asked for a prince. She asked for a night off and a dress.”
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